There has always been a saying that boys will be boys. However here we have the concept of another male whose rich, popular and privileged. He has a boat load of women to choose from who engage with him despite knowing there's other woman in the background. It leaves a question, do some women really want a good man whose a provider, faithful, thoughtful or a dude they know whose a dog but stays with him for the lavish lifestyle, trips, drama, negativity and dysfunction. Not only is Adrien Broner engaged to his fiancé Miss Louie Bags who he has children with. What makes this scenario worse is Adrien Broner is not private about his feelings, thoughts and apparently his side chicks. Does money give certain people the privilege to do what they want despite everyone knowing your dirty laundry?
Exhibit A
Not only is Adrien Broner know for his cockiness, arrogance, throwing money like it's nothing, misogynic idealistic. He has no filter nor discretion when it comes to his children mother. Not only will women continue to volunteer dating this guy. However they know for a fact that's he's creeping around behind his fiancé back and some are upfront about his dealings
Exhibit B.
Exhibit C
Exhibit D
Here's an example where the women in Adrien Broner life are basically getting upset and reacting to his behavior. Not only does Adrien Broner current fiancé Miss Louie Bags know what's going on but she takes up for his behavior and apologizes for him. Not even mentioning the ongoing infidelity that Adrien Broner is doing publically. Now I don't know Adrien Broner personally and who knows maybe he's not that bad of a man and is just going through some struggles. However my question is do all men cheat? Or do women prefer certain men and relationships with men who're unfaithful? Is it possible that many women would rather date a guy whose known for being a dog, being disrespectful publically especially when he's popular and rich? Is it possible that some women prefer to date a man whose unfaithful than a man whose faithful because that's not what they want or are use to? Again Adrien Broner is the perfect example that many women will deal with for a few years. Then go on that tirade that all men are dogs, cheaters and ain't ish. You can't blame all men if you choose to deal with grown inconsistent boys. No one is flawless however if the man would publically shame you and himself. Then not even take accountability for it. Not only our people in his life enabling the behavior but the women in his life are asking to be treated like that. Now ladies I'm not saying own the cheat however if you keep going to a restaurant day after day. Although they mistreat you, talk about you behind your back, lie to you in your face and outwardly publicly disrespect you. If you keep going into the restaurant the problem isn't the restaurant. The problem is you and you may need to change first and leave those bad restaurants (grown inconsistent boys alone). I'm not here to tell you to settle or not want better however ladies if you want to attract better you have to be better. Crying about how bad men are will not fix the situation long term but only temporarily. People will accept and listen to a victim but no one really respect the victim. So be a victor not a victim move on without any bitterness or coldness toward anyone. See it as a great thing that taught you fully what's out there and what you do want.
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